Spirituality and Sexual Abuse – Epstein and Chopra

Nothing seems to be further apart: Spirituality as the gateway to the highest and purest form of human consciousness, and sexual abuse as cruel inhumanity. But on this dark earth, there is nothing that cannot be related to each other, as evidenced by the years of correspondence between Jeffrey Epstein, the twice-convicted abuser and trafficker of girls, and Deepak Chopra, the renowned spiritual teacher and author. In 3,466 documented messages, the two men communicated between 2016 and 2019, at a time when Epstein had already been convicted as a sex offender. The spiritual teacher knew with whom he was chatting in an extremely friendly manner about various topics—and all too often about the “girls.”

Links to the sources with the original documents as published by the US Department of Justice can be looked up at the end of this article. Reading the various email messages is truly horrifying. The spiritual teacher responds to his friend's salacious jokes with platitudes from non-dualistic knowledge. It seems as if a student is complaining about his girlfriend's quirks and the master explains that all human suffering arises only from attachment to a construct:

Epstein: „Yes but I prefer my characters to have good bodies.“
Chopra: „Images and sounds are in awareness… As is the cringe! Nothing is outside of awareness.“ „Whenever the cringe occurs ask ‘Who or what is having this experience?’ … the person also is just a construct.“

Without context, Chopra's answer would be a harmless piece of spiritual advice. But since both knew that crime was involved, the interspersed spiritual wisdom shamelessly served to whitewash and justify abuse.

Fun and girls

Here are a few more examples of the exchange:

Chopra shared a video of an actress and author with Epstein: “She's good.” Epstein: “Is she in New York?” Chopra told him she was in California. She had visited him for a weekend. And he had “invited again in future.” He described her as “innocent and smart at the same time.” Epstein replied: “Secondary to cute.”

The abuse is not addressed directly, not even by the “teacher” who knows about this dark side of his “student,” but it always resonates in the background, obviously on both sides. It is as if the two older gentlemen talk about their secret passions (young girls) in a seemingly harmless and trivializing way, completely avoiding and ignoring the criminal dimensions of these urges.

Chopra invited Epstein to Israel: “Come to Israel with us. Relax and have fun with interesting people. If you want use a fake name. Bring your girls. It will be fun to have you. Love.” Epstein declined. Chopra urged: “Your girls would love it as would you.”

Chopra invited Epstein to his workshop in Zurich: “You should come to my 2 day workshop with your girls in Switzerland in Zurich—a small village in the suburbs. Will be fun.” 

Epstein offered to “send two girls” to Chopra’s Wall Street speaking event.  Chopra: “Please send their names to me and I will put their names as my guests.” He CC’d Epstein’s assistant on logistics.

It's all about fun and girls, and no one asks how old the girls are, what their names are, or whether they are coming voluntarily. They are sent around like surprise parcels for the pleasure of ageing men. They have to serve as vehicles that make the fun possible, objects for the men’s needs. This is the nature of sexual offenders. In addition, these young women were abused by Chopra as objects for his pseudo-spiritual games.

This strange duo was bound by a deep friendship for over four years: “I am deeply grateful for our friendship.” (Chopra to Epstein, July 11, 2017) Chopra: “Will miss you then. Hope to see you in May.” They had a pact of secrecy as offenders need: Chopra to Epstein: “Anything we share is between us. I share nothing with anyone but trust you.” Epstein: “I share nothing with anyone but trust you.”

However, one of them was already registered as a sex offender, while the other is still walking around freely, writing spiritual books and cleaning himself up. Chopra's wife, to whom he has been married for 56 years, was mentioned only once in the thousands of messages exchanged. She was obviously not welcome on the playground where the two of them acted out their adolescent fantasies, both in real life and virtually.

Consequential pre-transpersonal confusions

To say that these events were pre-transpersonal confusions according to Ken Wilber is the least that can be said. Transpersonal insights are used to justify pre-personal actions and to evade personal responsibility. In this twisted view, the abuse of minors is no longer a crime, but the product of illusions. People are only seen as fictional characters, so you are free to do whatever you want with them, according to the logic of this momentous and far-reaching confusion of levels.

Spiritually (and thus usually also financially) successful people in particular quickly fall into the trap of their egos, as can be seen in many of the messages Chopra sent to Epstein. This is an abuse of spirituality for ego purposes, which is unfortunately widespread in the scene.

People who are unable to understand the difference between the pre- and transpersonal levels due to their unresolved traumas fall prey to these machinations, while their teachers assure them that they no longer need to worry about it because “everything is fine as it is,” “what's past is past, and only the present counts,” “because everything is an illusion,” etc., and all false teachings come from a position of authority with the undeniable power of wisdom and enlightenment.

The trap often lies in the fact that people in such powerful positions have no one beside them or tolerate no one who could point out their dark sides.

In consequence, all kinds of confusion ensue because their ego believes that they are revered for their grandeur and deserve a lofty position above all others who are not as spiritually advanced because of their spiritual achievements. Deepak can impress the cynic Epstein with his spiritual twists and turns and he receives recognition (also financial) from him, obviously for relieving him of moral pressure. 

Where there are only illusions of people, there is also no personal responsibility and no guilt—an ideal concept for a criminal and a permission to continue following one's own perverse urges without any pressure from one's conscience.

Toxic Enlightenment

Günter Enzi writes in his commentary on this topic, with the title: “When ‘enlightenment’ becomes toxic: The danger of disembodied non-duality”: ”A mature, embodied non-duality could have said to Epstein: 'Even if, on an absolute level, everything is consciousness—on a relative level, you acted. And your actions have hurt real bodies. Before we talk about illusion, you need to physically feel what you have done. Non-duality is not an escape from responsibility. It deepens it.' That would have been an imposition. No de-realization – but confrontation in contact."

The repression of guilt in the case of sex offender Epstein and his accomplice Chopra was made possible by escaping from the physical level to a mental one, from which Chopra, who is up to every trick of spiritual manipulation, was able to issue Epstein, the cynical bon vivant, a clean bill of sanity for his misdeeds instead of confronting him with the suffering he had caused.

The body is the seat of feelings of shame that arise with every inhuman act we commit, and its unpleasant messages must be suppressed so that evil deeds can continue. One of the most perfidious ways of justifying such actions is to abuse the exquisite and, in a deep sense, sacred knowledge gained from the experience of non-duality for the purposes of shameless ego gratification.

Ethics of integrity have their place in the whole human being, in body, soul, and spirit. Those who act in accordance with these areas act well. Evil arises when one of these areas asserts itself against the others, with the imperative of survival impulses.

Likewise, integrity and integral spirituality are supported by the whole human being, not just his spirit. Our body contains the sensors for the good, the true, and the beauty. Spirit alone is helpless when it comes to issues of relative reality. It is capable of advancing into the spheres of absolute knowledge. However, what it finds there is usually not useful for everyday issues. We have other coping mechanisms for that.

The boundary between the absolute and the relative must remain clear. If boundaries are crossed here, which happens through unconscious mechanisms, abuse can easily occur, whether sexual, physical, or spiritual.

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Capitalism and Socialism: Fear Orientation vs. Shame Orientation

 Our Future and Four Horror Narratives

Looking into the future is sometimes done with hope and confidence, but sometimes also with concern and fear. These worries and fears are based on current experiences and facts that we have gathered from various information channels. The emotional charge of these images of the future comes from our childhood and prenatal experiences, as well as from collective traumas from history.

We can distinguish four different scenarios, all of which overlap and interact with each other somewhere, but which are also served, propagated and reinforced separately by political parties and groups: 

• the scenario of a desolidarized society
• the scenario of a society flooded from outside
• the scenario of dwindling prosperity
• the scenario of a destroyed nature.

The first narrative is about social inequality. It is an ancient theme of humanity that has arisen at least since the transition from tribal cultures to arable cultures about 10,000 years ago. Many fairy tales and legends deal with the hard-hearted rich and the suffering poor. Since industrialization, the problem has massively intensified, and political movements under the banner of socialism and communism have emerged, dedicated to the struggle for greater social justice.

Since that time, the facts show a permanently increasing divergence between the accumulation of wealth by the very few on the one hand and the working poverty, old-age poverty, single-parent poverty and unemployment poverty of the very many on the other, with a middle class in between that is increasingly in danger of slipping into poverty. The climate crisis adds another dimension to this development, because it has a completely different impact when someone has to survive the heat in a crowded slum under a corrugated iron roof or in a secluded and fully air-conditioned villa by the sea. Life courses, dates of death, and causes of death are significantly influenced by position in the social fabric, which is defined by the imbalance in the disposal of material resources. Those who are rich not only live better, but also longer.

The Indispensability of Social Balance

Reason tells us that a certain degree of social balance is needed for people to be able to form a community. Not everyone needs to earn the same amount or have the same wealth, but there must be a framework within which the differences operate, as well as permeabilities that allow for equality or comparability of opportunity. For otherwise there is a danger that society will fall apart and a war of all against all will break out, or that there will be a closing off of the happy few in their fortified ghettos from the mass of the badly off. A dynamic balance between performance norms and individual strengths and weaknesses is necessary to reduce the stress of survival for the individuals and to make the creative potential that is in all people available for each other and for a humane development.

It is also easy to understand that during crises and disasters, those who are socially and monetarily weaker suffer even more severely than those who can do better because of their means. At the time of the rush of refugees and asylum seekers to Central Europe, there were the wealthy who fled from the refugees to their vacation domicile on the Balearic or Canary Islands. There were and are similar departures in the current pandemic times. The climate crisis, like any other, is always also a social crisis.

Horror Scenarios and Ideologies

Horror narratives are designed to wake up humanity and motivate it to act. But they have a tendency to become loaded with ideologies - as long as there are unresolved emotional energies behind the reasonable concerns, i.e. mainly fears and feelings of shame.

The ideological ballast comes to light where the background and causes of the imbalance are mythologized by identifying apparent masterminds behind developments. Either it is a few conspirators who pull the strings and play with people's fate, or it is "capitalism" that steers humanity to its downfall with its destructive power. When it comes to responsibility for "evil," social revolutionaries tend to use truncated concepts. In this way, the complex systems that drive these developments are reduced to simple images of the enemy, which then appear so overpowering that there seems to be no basis for political counter-activity and anything done to improve the situation or correct the destructive tendencies can be dismissed as a symptom cure. The ideology, which goes back to Karl Marx, says that the whole society must be overturned in order to do away with the specter of capitalism. Until that can be done, everything will only get worse, because even any attempt at reform will stabilize capitalism and make it more resistant.

But the communist revolution, when we overlook the history of modern times, has never really and fundamentally succeeded. Today, the capitalist system operates unabated throughout the world, and one of its strongest powers is the communist People's Republic of China. Communism (or "real existing socialism"), as it has appeared in history, is a system of rule that establishes power structures and controls and suppresses possible opponents. The economy serves as a field of experimentation that is tinkered with using the instruments of power. Experience has shown that any attempt to completely subordinate capitalism to political power has had disastrous effects on economic performance. This was a major reason why the communist system in Eastern Europe went down without a sound in 1989. It was not possible to look that quickly, already many of the former standard bearers of socialism became the most successful capitalists. 

Chinese communism produced famines and other economic disasters as long as attempts were made to eradicate capitalism with political power. Only when more and more capitalist elements were allowed in did economic successes then set in, and with it corruption of previously unknown proportions.

No Communism with Traumatized People

Karl Marx understood much of the nature of capitalism, but his conclusion that capitalism must be eliminated by revolution of the oppressed masses was short-sighted. What Marx overlooked was the interwoven nature of capitalism into the human condition. (Karl Marx was not familiar with psychology and even less with trauma theory). Capitalist thought and action is an aspect of being human and is intimately connected to the emotional drives of fear and greed. Psychologically, capitalism represents the playground of a widespread survival strategy: Coping with the fear of one's own extinction through the accumulation of goods. Paradoxically, fear increases further when more security is to be created from the life threats posed by greed-led acts of accumulation. Fear begets greed, and greed increases fear. Thus, capitalism only mirrors fear management and in reality reproduces it constantly.

As we have seen, we can understand capitalism as the interactive system driven by the emotions of fear and greed, which has developed from it a life of its own that can no longer be controlled by single individuals. Everyone is subjected to it, no one can completely escape its pull, and consequently everyone also participates in ensuring that the power of the capitalist system continues to grow. (We all have to buy food and other goods that are produced and distributed within the framework of capitalism. With every price we pay, we consent to these conditions of production and distribution. We all have to earn our living and sell our labor power, thus agreeing to the rules of the labor market and wage labor).

Capitalism thus arises as a community product that operates supra-individually. It is composed of the sum of people's actions motivated by capitalism. Therefore, capitalism cannot simply be destroyed; this is the illusion through which communist ideas become an ideology. People and their emotional survival strategies remain the same whatever system is installed on the political level. People do not lose their fears and greed as a way of coping with fear, merely if the political and economic system is regulated differently. Every communist dictator and apparatchik is historical proof of this.

So capitalism is not a historical error or an evil power that has come over humanity, but the collective creative attempt of humanity to ensure its survival from a certain stage of complexity of social development (I have described it as the fifth stage of the evolution of consciousness). It takes a delicate balance of individual and social motives at each stage to ensure collective survival. The predominance of individual survival incentives over collective ones in the capitalist system shows its roots in people's primal fears. For fear always calls attention to the threat to one's own life from others. In fear, other people become hostile and dangerous beings to us.

From the point of view of psychology, in capitalism the fear of shame holds sway. Shame demands social consideration in one's acts of survival: When we behave selfishly in an emergency situation, for example, when we crowd onto the last boat before others in a shipwreck, shame calls in. When intensive care beds are in short supply during a pandemic, we must do everything we can to avert the shame that arises when we fail to do everything humanly possible to cure the sick.

The threatening potential of capitalism lies in the fact that it has succeeded in largely disempowering shame. It is not by chance that the most shame-free people are at the top of capitalist machinations. This is precisely why we need shame-driven systems that balance the power of fear-driven systems. Only in this way will there be a balance at the level of survival impulses. 

Here we see the indispensable task of socialism. If the counterforces against capitalism are not maintained and strengthened, fear-driven individualism inevitably takes over, and the principle of solidarity goes out the window. The freely unleashed struggle of everyone against everyone is the beginning of the end of humanity. In contrast, socialism demands solidarity between the stronger and the weaker, between the richer and the poorer. There is a deeply human need for balance between top and bottom, and massive anxieties arise when it is disregarded.  

Capitalism not only promises security for one's survival anxieties by generally increasing wealth, but at the same time feeds them by demanding more and more from people. This is the destrucitve feedback system for which people in industrial and post-industrial society have to pay an increasing toll of physical and, increasingly, mental exploitation. Here, too, a socialized shame reports back, pointing to the shame that, despite the amazing achievements of modern luxury societies, the quality of life and life satisfaction have not increased, but that people are afflicted by new fears, by greed, envy, arrogance and self-doubt.

Fear Orientation and Shame Orientation in Interplay

As long as there is no awareness that capitalism is driven by fear and socialism by shame, the distribution of power will swing back and forth between the two forces. At one time one will rule, at another time the other will rule. For the electorate vacillates just as much between these patterns of emotion, which they both carry within them. In the meantime, many socialists have become a little more capitalist and some capitalists a little more shamefaced. But the basic structure has not changed: The anxieties that capitalism pretends to reduce are actually increased by pressures on individuals. It is similar with the shame that is supposed to be calmed under socialism: It seeks other fields of activity once social balance is realized on a broader basis. 

An example is the (shameless) surveillance of individuals, which was installed in all communist states. It was intended to maintain a sense of shame among people so that they would subordinate their individual aspirations, their egoisms, to the collective. In reality, however, the power-hungry egoists in the ruling power apparatus prevailed over the subjects, often with extreme physical and mental cruelty.  

Another typical example is formed by the forced self-shaming performed as rituals of power affirmation in these systems: The absurd confessions of defendants in the Stalinist show trials and the forced self-criticism of officials under Chinese communism testify to the instrumentalization of shame for the purposes of maintaining power and suppressing individual freedoms.

Contemporary China also demonstrates the interplay between a capitalist and a socialist dictatorship. After recently growing the Chinese economy at record rates and producing more and more billionaires, the government now seems to be steering back in the shame direction. Shame barriers are being imposed on the entertainment industry, large corporations are being reprimanded, and rampant working hours are being restricted. Under the rubric of "general prosperity," the social side of Chinese socialism is being reactivated. 

Beyond the Survival Pattern: Optimism instead of Horror

The horror of the scenario of a society diverging along the wealth gap only clears when the influence of ideology fades from the contexts. Ideologies tend to produce a reality-distorting black-and-white view and friend-foe thinking. The unprejudiced view of reality enables the actions necessary to counteract desolidarization and bring to bear the social intentions inherent in every human being. The commitment to greater social justice at all levels is then not driven by shame, but by the desire for a just and humane society, a deeply human concern. It is a concern that must be formulated, demanded and urged again and again for the sake of a just society.

Much has already been achieved on this path, much is still open and must be tackled with all our strength. Many people are committed to these issues. There is much cause for optimism, and this is the attitude that releases and focuses energies.